In this BIT: Calling all high school seniors! See below our university and college advice on how to prepare for the future, and your first year of college!
Author: Sheryl Lilly Pidgeon | Editor-in-Chief, Goodlifefamilymag.com
Graduation season is coming to a close, and with one chapter ending, another chapter is on the horizon. However, the idea of moving up – or moving out – can be very scary and intimidating! Of course, there’s many exciting aspects of finishing high school, but the uncertainties of navigating this new era in life, is not always something we excite over. If you’re a freshly graduated teen, a parent of someone who is just entering this new season of life, or simply interested in expanding your toolkit in managing change, this BITS post is for you!
When I moved each of my three children to college, to new cities for internships or for a new job, I especially enjoyed the one-on-one time together in the car. On the drive we talked about their future, their passions, and my hopes (and fears). As we shared thoughts and strategized, I unexpectedly realized that many life analogies can be drawn from the open road:
Read the road signs: In your first year of college, you will blaze your own trail, but there are signs (and people) pointing you in the right direction.
Use your navigation system: Life is complicated and the route is circuitous. You may choose to “take the road less traveled” as you make important decisions in your life, but seeking help and taking advice is just plain smart.
Never text and drive: Diverting your attention even for a split second can have tragic consequences. Swerving from your integrity might seem exciting, but it’s a dangerous road to take. Be present in the moment and you’ll find the journey is far more memorable.
Drive the speed limit: Don’t be in such a rush to get to your destination that you miss out on the beauty all around you.
Use your blinker: While you may have a plan firmly in place and know exactly where you’re going, sharing those intentions is a vital step toward achieving your goals.
Fuel up: It’s impossible to tackle the road of life when you are running on empty. Fill up on healthy food, regular exercise and plenty of sleep. Recharge with like-minded people who are on the same road to success.
Designate a driver: There’s a time and a place for letting go and having fun, but be smart, know your limits, and know who has your back.
Drive friendly: Judge people by their actions not their words. Angry drivers tend to be angry people. Cool heads prevail. Be smarter, not louder, and you’ll find there are many ways to achieve your goals without stepping on others along the way.
Keep both hands on the wheel
It’s easy to get complacent and comfortable, but always be prepared for the unexpected. And, while you will often find yourself driving solo, know that your parents, extended family and true friends are “riding shotgun.”
Navigating the entry to adulthood is something that we all experience, and it’s important to remember that you are not alone! My biggest piece of university and college advice is to talk to friends about your challenges and your wins, keep in touch with people from high school, and remember: it’s about the journey of figuring things out along the way.
We hope that this university and college advice helps you prepare for the future, bringing you a Small Bits of Happiness.
For more happiness check out our Mood Boost page.
Featuring quick videos created for teens by teens.